Basic strategies:

基本策略：

1. To care and appreciate, but not to criticize and scold.

    多彼此關懷欣賞，勿互相挑剔謾罵。

2. To appreciate good moral values, but not to focus only on external behaviors.

    多稱讚良好品德，勿褒獎浮誇表現。

3. To arouse intrinsic learning motivation, but not to rely on extrinsic authority.

    多誘發內在動機，勿依靠外在權威。